What value could I possibly have?
This is a question that has puzzled would be entrepreneur since well forever. What could I possibly have of Worth to bring value to the marketplace? Value can sometimes seem as an elusive concept that can be difficult to understand. we carry more value with us than we give ourselves credit for. We think that value only comes from those who have already accomplished things in life, but there’s a key concept that we often Miss. Let me give you an example of what I’m talking about. The best example of this I can give is during the time when a baby learns how to walk. He or she sees those around them in their environment walking and that gives them the idea. As they slowly begin to stand up on their feet and try to take steps they fall down. Never discouraged by this they just keep continuously trying. Mom and Dad May step in every now and then helping the baby by holding their hands. Until finally the baby is walking on their own. (Okay so the babies walking, I don’t see value in that.) It’s simple the value comes from the experience of the journey, the time taken to come from not being able to walk to the point of being able to walk. In that your value lies. Your experience.
Hard life lessons learned.
Life sometimes doesn’t always turn out the way we wanted it to. Most people allow this to depress them and get them down feel anguish and suffering in life. You know,that time in life when you realize that what you’re doing is never going to equal what you want. Decisions you’ve made didn’t pan out as expected or perhaps something out of your control arise such as health problems or any kind of physical ailment. The loss of a loved one or divorce. These are life’s hard lessons that can either make or break us.
Being between a rock and a hard place.
Being in this situation can if we allow it draw out the best in us. I like to share something personal with you about me and that is I have suffered from Crohns disease ever since 2007 and I could have allowed this to really bring me down into a depressed state were I had nothing to look forward to in life, but on the contrary it’s caused me to search and seek out a more deeper value in life and greater meaning. Looking beyond the realm of the things I already know and into the realm of possibility. In searching I have found a much deeper and greater meaning to life and fulfillment that goes beyond any amount of suffering we may go through. A deep reconsideration of just what my values really are in life. Value of my wife, the value of my children, the value of different beliefs I held, and the value of my vulnerabilities and my insecurities. Really dealing with the uncertainties in life and coming to peace with them. This reconsidering of value has caused me to experience a much greater and deeper concept of what it means to offer value to others. We sometimes need friction in our life’s to bring out the best value in us. This would have never happened if I hadn’t been put between a rock and a hard place.
The times you succeeded in the past.
When stepping out into the uncertain most people feel anxiety’s great overwhelm of insecurity and lack of belief in themselves that they’re able to even do it. I always have to remind myself of all the times I actually did succeed at something. If this isn’t the case for you, if you honestly haven’t felt that you’ve succeeded in anything in life well there’s always a first time for everything. Going back to your past and remembering that everything you’ve went through be it living from paycheck to paycheck and having to jumble money back and forth just to pay bills, frustrations when it came to needing necessities, vehicle repairs, food on the table and anything of that nature we’ve always made it in the past and will continue to make it in the future. Step into uncertainty without fear but more like that small baby I mentioned in the above paragraph. They’re not afraid of learning how to walk. All they know is that’s something I want to do, and they take action towards doing it. From my experience when you take action anxiety about the uncertainty automatically vanishes.
So do you have value?
Well if you’ve read this far down into the article I’m sure you know the answer of course we all have value. Also if you’re reading this article you’re probably wanting to bring that value out from within yourself because you’re more than likely stuck between a rock and a hard place. Don’t be afraid to step outside of the realm of the known. Don’t be afraid to step out and uncertainty because you’ve always made it in the past you’re making it now and you’ll continue to make it in the future.
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result.
Hello my name is Kody, I help people succeed in the area of online business, specifically Affiliate Marketing. The link below will take you to a page were you can enter your name and email. I will send you a Free 7 Day Video Series made by a couple of my mentors. In it they talk about what the digital ecomey is, and how it can get you out from behind a rock and a hard place.
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